
Kaleidoscopic Constellations
The Way We Look At Things Changes the Things We Look At
Constellations work is a beautiful way of seeing how our past histories inform our present views, enabling us to source a Kaleidoscopic gaze. One shift, one slight turn, allows us to behold the luminous fragments of our life in a wholly different view.
This work is inspired by Family & Systemic Constellations, a modality founded and developed by Burt Hellinger, weaving together indigenous understandings of ancestral healing, family systems therapy, and Rupert Sheldrake’s “morphic field.” It can be applied in one-on-one or group sessions with a trained facilitator.
Why Constellations & How Does it Work?
An individual comes to Constellations work with an issue or challenge they want to address - related to family, work, their personal health, or some other aspect of their life. Often these issues emerge out of unconscious loyalty to old patterns – we enact a present conflict that actually originates in an earlier source in our family system and ancestral lineages. Other members of the group represent various aspects/roles, creating a map of the system - a constellation. The person has the experience of seeing their system mapped ‘on the ground’ and hearing the information that comes through these representatives.
Kaleidoscopic Constellations
Imagine a Kaleidoscope. Its sleek form, the elegance of the design and mirrors.
Kaleidoscopes embody endless possibilities and dynamic perspectives. They remind us of the ever-changing nature of life, our capacity to find beauty in complexity and chaos, and the potential for new patterns and meanings to emerge. When we look through a kaleidoscope at any given moment, we discover a unique combination (constellation) of elements that have come together to create a particular form - a pattern.
The Knowing Field
We all possess an innate, somatic intelligence, what is called the Knowing Field in Systemic/Family Constellations work. This is where we discover our capacity to tap into a larger, more essential truth. We humans often want to control things, create certainty, know how things work, and how to make them work better by following certain technologies and prescriptions. This can be valuable.
Constellations work is about an unanticipated reveal.
When we tell ourselves that the way we’re seeing things is the way they are, we feel secure. However, when we look in a different way, sourcing from that which is outside of our own egoic consciousness, we allow a whole other way of apprehending what is possible.
Offerings
• Monthly group
(every third Saturday of the month)
• 1-1 sessions
• Professional consulting
• Workshop settings
If you’re interested in joining one of these offerings, please fill out the Inquiry Form below!
I currently facilitate a Monthly In-Person Constellation Group which has been meeting for over four years. Numerous members of this ongoing group work in both healing and creative modalities. We frequently integrate and cross-pollinate a variety of disciplines and modalities, informed by the practices of the group's participants. Thus we may weave storytelling, writing, somatic experiencing and other disciplines into our time together.
In my work as a facilitator, I bring constellation practices into a variety of workshop settings, where specific constellation exercises serve to deepen and enhance the purpose and content of the workshop. I’ve used constellation exercises in writing, performative, and organizational development environments.
FAQs
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Family & Systemic Constellations is a modality founded and developed by Burt Hellinger, weaving together indigenous understandings of ancestral healing, family systems therapy, and Rupert Sheldrake’s “morphic field.” Helinger says Constellations is phenomenological – it is a felt sense that emerges in an actual experience, not simply a theory.
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It can be applied in one-on-one or group sessions with a trained facilitator.
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An individual comes to Constellations work with an issue or challenge they want to address - be it related to family, work, their personal health, or some other aspect of their life. Often these issues emerge out of unconscious loyalty to old patterns – we enact a present conflict that actually originates in an earlier source in our family system and ancestral lineages. Other members of the group represent various aspects/roles, creating a map of the system - a constellation. The person has the experience of seeing their system mapped ‘on the ground’ and hearing the information that comes through these representatives.
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The force of life is relentless, always looking forward as through the Kaledeiscope’s lens. Yet invariably we get stuck, captured by the past in ways that perennially mystify us. This force of life comes through us most specifically via our ancestral lineage. We exist as a direct fulfillment of the lifeforce flowing through them. Constellation work enables us to map and navigate our lineage and social systems. Our gaze reveals what we often don’t acknowledge, thus opening us to life’s invitation to embody our potential, less entangled in the knots of the past. We turn luminous fragments in the Kaleidoscope, a mosaic of lost bits, in a process of constant recreation as we begin to answer the question: how much of our stories, and which parts, belong to us?
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In both group and one-on-one sessions, we begin by grounding our somatic selves as well as opening our hearts to guidance. I listen and invite the presenting issue for which you are seeking help. I do a short interview allowing some information to be sourced without entering into much narration of stories. The point is to allow the somatic expression of the constellation to begin. With objects and/or human representatives, we begin to map out the issue. Representatives offer information from the Field. The physical movement and placement of representatives reveals where the flow of life is blocked. Often, a resolution occurs whereby the representatives feel a sense of release. Sometimes we use “seed sentences,” which are simple, clarifying statements which you are invited to speak. Eg. “You are my mother. I am your daughter.”
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Everything in the universe holds a vibrational signature. When we step into a representation of a person, eg. somebody's mother, or an ancestor, or even an archetypal concept, we embody the energetic imprint of what it is that we’re representing. If this feels like magic – it kind of is. One definition of magic is the capacity to change consciousness at will. It might seem like an esoteric practice, but it is a natural human capacity that we do all the time, even when we’re not aware of it. When we behold a tree in our yard, or a bird feeding, or a person's emotional energy, we are enabling what we call morphic resonance. We feel a subtle interconnectivity that resonates in our mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual Field. The key is to bring awareness to this innate capacity, noticing the synergy between all things. This is what we do in Constellations work. Many people, even if it’s their very first time, find it to be immediate and accessible.
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Constellations practice, both as clients and representatives, can be deep work.
Our own ‘issues’ and emotions may emerge.
We each take responsibility for our own experience.
We trust, respect & agree that we each have our own individual resources for working through what comes up. -
A basic principle for working in groups or with individuals
where personal information may be shared
is to honor a practice of confidentiality.
In a community where people may know each other, creating a sacred container will enable ongoing trust. -
The advisement in Constellations practice
is to allow the constellation to work in its after effects by holding the experience within for a couple of days. This allows the images and knowings to arise in us
in a sacred and contained manner.
The constellation continues to ‘work’ within us
after the group experience completes.
Keeping this container sealed allows the energetic forces constellated to bring about a deeper transformation. -
As leader/circle holder of this group,
I am available to speak about anything arising for you.
Please connect directly to me. -
Constellations work does not claim itself to be a form of conventional therapy, although it can hold deep healing opportunities. By participating in Kaleidoscopic Constellations work, you acknowledge that the session, future sessions or workshops are not designed as a substitute for therapy with a psychiatrist, psychotherapist, other mental health care professional, other medical professional, or as a substitute for any other professional consultation. You understand that Family Constellation Therapy is designed as an educational experience only.
Facilitation & Training
In my 45 years as an Episcopal priest, arts producer and community pastor, I have worked with a wide variety of individuals and groups in numerous settings, including hospitals, prisons, low income housing, college campuses, and public arts arenas. In our time together, I offer a passionate sense of inquiry, a courageous heart and a loving, receptive presence.
Constellations is a very permeable form that enables practitioners to weave together their own modalities and capacities. As a ceremonialist and arts producer, these elements of both ritual and expressive arts deeply inform my facilitation of Family & Systemic Constellations work, which I call Kaleidoscopic Constellations.
As a member of the practitioner faculty of the Holistic Health Community, O+ Festival, The People’s Place, (NFP’s in the Hudson Valley,) I offer constellation work, providing outreach to underserved populations, including those in recovery & formerly homeless.
Additionally, I have offered introduction to constellation work in a number of public institutions including libraries and health festivals.
I have co-led a practice group for facilitators, and have received training in Family and Systemic Constellations from leading practitioners including Suzi Tucker, Jane Petersen, PhD, Leslie Nipps, and Barry Krost.
To read more about my background, click here.
Testimonials
from participants of The Outer Edge Constellation group and one-on-one Constellation Sessions
When I am in a Constellation session it always feels like it is a receiving space for stories that are waiting to be told. This feels true whether my unresolved issue is the one being addressed or other people's. Each session feels very powerful because of the deep connections being made within the Constellation itself. I always have insights into my own situations when other people's relationships are revealed in their Constellations.
-Jill
“Through this enigmatic process, I unconsciously shifted my thinking. I had, indeed, tapped into a truth that freed me…”
Read Fay’s full article about our one-on-one Constellation Session here.
-Fay
When I was a child, my friends and I would play what we called imaginary games. We would enter into a story, not knowing where it would take us. Constellation group has similar elements of play, imagination and surprise.
-Elizabeth
I come to the group inside myself, sometimes locked inside myself.
And then something more that I didn’t know was inside me, is suddenly present. More of me, more of who I am, more of where I came from. Sometimes those I didn’t know I was carrying with me become obvious. And then I can move, often into something new.
-Sue
Guided Journey
Pick up a leaf. Now imagine you’re standing before a tree, perhaps a beloved tree that you know, or a tree that appears to you, and journey down to the very origin, the very beginning, the first seed of your family line/lineage. The dream of the oak tree lives in the acorn. What is the very essence of your ancestral line? What energy and imprint did it begin and grow? Evolve into?
Now imagine the limbs of the first rungs and see your parents, and your grandparents, and their grandparents, 10 generations back, 1,022 ancestors in your family tree.
Behold your ancestors before you. You are alive because they lived. Their genetic lifeblood flows through your veins, and is pumping in your heart. Consider that they lived through wars and famines and murders, the brutality of oppressive regimes, civil wars, disease and suffering — and joys and celebrations and creativity and potential as well.
Does one or a group of your ancestors have a message for you about your life to live forward now?
And when you find it, bring it into your heart. Put your hands on your heart and hold fast.
Constellations work is phenomenological - which means it’s best experienced rather than explained.
Join us to experience it for yourself.
*Nature Mandalas by Felicia Flanagan